Kim Jennet, the real name of Lilith, lead vocalist for Dogma, has released a statement offering her point of view about parting ways with the band.
I want to share my side of the story. because I know the women involved legally may be unable to share certain aspects of their story, and I have proof of that. I’m speaking out in solidarity with them. As women in music, we’ve got to have each other’s backs and call this kind of thing out so it stops happening again. In 2024 I was told I’d be the new singer of Dogma. (I got through the audition and to the point of exchanging contacts before flying to South America for rehearsals)
From day one, it was made clear this wasn’t really a band. it was a brand. A plant created and pruned by the management. I was essentially playing a role.That does not take away from how much hard work and graft it takes to be a part of a project like this. The girls would have poured their hearts souls, blood sweat and tears into it. You could see they all injected a part of themselves into the roles and did an incredible job of making those characters their own.
What makes me sick about all of this is the anonymity. The women are masked, silenced, and controlled by contracts that stop them from speaking out. with legal threats hanging over them if they do and I have the proof of all this. The contract I was sent was one of the most insulting things I’ve seen in my 15 year career. My Lawyer said it was essentially “slave labour” and told me not to go anywhere near it.
I completely understand that not everyone has access to legal advice, and I don’t blame the women who signed. They were sold a dream. manipulated with false promises and hope, into signing something that ultimately exploited them. People might not realise it’s not just about the awful pay, $100 a show (frankly a joke) while the managers pocket the profits from merchandise, ticket sales, and meet and greets. It’s about control. legally bound to hide behind characters and keep mouths shut. Replaceable and exploited, all disguised behind a mask of “feminism.”
I fought it for months. Every time I pushed back, the managers came back with manipulative tactics, trying to pressure me into signing something that would have destroyed me legally, financially, and professionally. I urged them to add a section added about basic human rights which they immediately took back out. Protecting myself against things like, sexual abuse and exploitation, allowing me rights to things such as health safety and the right to terminate the contract if these things are breached. When I urged my human rights where a non negotiable they backed out.
It is a brand that preaches “authenticity, freedom, and expression” while handing out contracts that strip those very things away. Even their official statement says it all: “Dogma is bigger than one person.” That’s exactly it …. the musicians are treated as replaceable. Disposable. Sadly, in today’s industry, there are so many artists that need work out there they will likely continue with a new lineup. more women being exploited and hidden behind this mask of “mystery.” I’m speaking out so people can see this for what it really is. If a brand’s power relies on silence, control, and anonymity, it’s not empowerment. it’s exploitation.
I never signed their contract. thank God. but here’s what they tried to make me agree to:
I’m speaking for those that can’t.
If you care about women in music, stop supporting systems that hide behind empowerment while profiting off silence.
I stand with Grace, Amber, and Patri, and I urge you to do the same. Think about who you’re really supporting and what kind of industry you’re helping to sustain.